My name is Eboni and I recently decided to use my journalism degree to help women be more confident and happier with themselves. I want to remind women that you should do things that make YOU happy, not just your man. Of course, there is nothing wrong with pleasing your man and catering to him, but there IS something wrong when he always gets his way and you never get yours. He’s happy and you’re crying your eyes out every night feeling neglected.
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The Celibacy Diaries Part One

I decided to explore the other side and remain celibate until I find the man that I can enjoy all these things with, even if it means waiting until marriage. Click here for the full article.
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Five Online Dating Tips for the Mature Age Group

Despite popular beliefs, online dating is not JUST for young people. In fact, the older people are the ones that are actually finding love online, while the young people tend to use online dating for casual sex and conversation. Click here for the full article.
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Marriage isn’t for Everyone

The funny thing is that a lot of women only strive to get married in life, which is actually pretty pathetic. Sure you can carve out “A Loving Wife” on a headstone Click here for the full article.
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Why Women stay in awful Relationships

As a relationship blogger, I feel compelled to open the curtain to my own life Click here for the full article.
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The Dating Game is Simple

To quote eHarmony’s advice entitled “The Twelve New Rules of Dating,” there is no dating game. “No more waiting "three days" after a date to contact your new love interest. We never liked that silly rule, anyways Click here for the full article.
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Love has No Color

What if the man you are longing for is a part of a race that you know nothing about? How many men are you going to overlook because they weren’t your race or the race you hoped they would be? All you are doing is hindering yourself and making finding love even harder Click here for the full article.
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Eboni Lacey 10 Things

10 Things We learn pretty early on as women that we must defend ourselves. We have to be confident and we have to show these men who we are and what we want. But, sometimes there’s a backlash. If you do any of these 10 things to men, the only person you’ll end up with is yourself. If you really want to try to get and keep a good man, the first step is looking in the mirror and realizing what you can do better. 1. Stop throwing things in his face We as women love to do things for our man. Click here for the full article.
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Once you Chase a Man

Understand that no REAL woman is a chaser or a follower, because she is too busy chasing her own success and her own dreams. Once a woman has decided to fully pursue a man, she’s already lost him. She’ll never have him anyway. Click here for the full article.
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It’s not Training, It’s Teaching

My mom would always tell me – “You have to teach people how to treat you.” I never really understood what that meant. I always thought that a person who really cared about you, would already know how to treat you. Click here for the full article.
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Are We Raising Our Standards or

No girl ever wants to me seen as a desperate muse with no standards. You know the type - a girl who will talk herself into dating ANY man, and I mean ANY MAN. A low life, a womanizer, a jerk, a liar – she will justify any man’s Click here for the full article.