My name is Eboni and I recently decided to use my journalism degree to help women be more confident and happier with themselves. I want to remind women that you should do things that make YOU happy, not just your man. Of course, there is nothing wrong with pleasing your man and catering to him, but there IS something wrong when he always gets his way and you never get yours. He’s happy and you’re crying your eyes out every night feeling neglected.
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A Queer Q & A #2

The church should be a place where people come to experience God's love in the midst of a loving community. The church fails totally when they try to decide who can be recipients of that love. Click here for the full article.

A Queer Q & A

I created a Queer Q & A, where I interview an LGBT person about many things; children, media, relationships – anything you have ever questioned but were too scared to ask them. Click here for the full article.

7 Insanely Weird Things

The greatest gift of life is time; the ability to grow, mature and adapt throughout the years that we are on Earth. Time gives us wisdom, if we choose to pay attention. Click here for the full article.

Are Christians Bullying Homosexuals?

We’ve made sex a brand and have used it to market nearly every single product in our nation. Click here for the full article.
Dating in 2015

5 Standards Every Woman Should Have

You don’t need a whole list of standards because men aren’t perfect and neither are you. But there’s no need to not have these basic standards. If you want something serious you must have serious behaviors Click here for the full article.
Tess Holliday

Love Your Body

Tess even started the #effyourbeautystandards campaign, a positive body movement that embraces loving your body no matter what size you are. Click here for the full article.

LGBT You may not understand it

Yet after hearing about the numerous youth suicides that occur every year from a young person (ages 10-24) that identities as Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual or Transgender, Click here for the full article.
Eboni Lacey

His Cheating Heart

There is nothing a woman can do about a man who has betrayed her and his children. Click here for the full article.
The Identity of She

Different Religion Relationships

At the Identity of She believe in open and honest content of every topic within the Confidence, Wellness, Relationships and Humanity categories. Click here for the full article.
Celibacy Diaries

The Celibacy Diaries Part Two

If you are searching for someone to build a foundation with, then you have no time for men that don’t want to #stayingcelibate #datingforkeeps #findingtherightperson Click here for the full article.